How to Incorporate Your Favourite Band Into Your Wedding
If music is your love language, you could think about making your favourite band the star of your wedding (besides you two, obvs.) Your wedding day should scream you in every possible way, so why not make it an ode to the music that brought you together? Whether you bonded over the same obscure indie band, went to your first concert as a couple, or had your first kiss while that song played in the background, music has a way of weaving itself into love stories. So, let’s turn the volume up on your big day celebrations! Here are some fun, creative, and totally rock-and-roll ways to splash your fave music icons all over your wedding. 🎸✨
1. Put Lyrics Everywhere
Incorporating your favourite song lyrics into your wedding day is a no-brainer—and there are so many ways to do it. First off, think about sprinkling them through your vows. Got a line from your song that hits you right in the feels? Work it into your promises to each other. (Hello, “You’re my wonderwall.”) 🥹
Lyrics are also an awesome addition to invitations and signage. I’ve worked on loads of designs where couples swapped traditional welcome signs for something a bit more personal. I’ve seen You’re my Wonderwall by Oasis, You and Me Always and Forever by The Wannadies, You Make Loving Fun by Fleetwood Mac, or You Were My Favourite for a Long Time by Fontaines D.C. (suuuuper cute!).
And don’t stop there! Your seating arrangements could follow the same lyrical love theme. I’ve done table names based on songs, bands, and lyrics—and let me tell you, it’s such a fun way to inject your personality and interests into the day. Imagine walking into a wedding where the tables are named after Radiohead songs or Arctic Monkeys albums. Not only is it super personal, but it’s also a great conversation starter for your guests. Your table décor will look and feel super cool, and feel special to you too.
2. Merch-Inspired Favours
What’s better than wedding favours your guests will actually want to keep? (Looking at you, dusty box of sugared almonds I got at a wedding five years ago.) Music-themed favours inspired by concert merch are where it’s at! Think custom tote bags with quirky band-style logos or patches and badges your guests can pin onto their jackets or bags. These make for keepsakes that won’t end up forgotten in a drawer.
Feeling extra creative? Festival-style pint cups are always a hit. They’re practical, customisable, reusable and give your wedding a mini-Glastonbury vibe. Imagine your guests clinking together their drinks with your names and wedding date printed in a cool, edgy design. And if you’re as obsessed with the idea as I am, let’s go full throttle with bespoke band/festival t-shirts or screen-printed posters. I would LOVE to create those for a couple. Seriously, slide into my DMs, and let’s make it happen! 🎤👕
3. The Set List
Every wedding needs a killer soundtrack—so let’s talk music! Booking a live band? Make sure they’re prepped to play your favourite tunes. And if you’re more into curating your own playlist, how cute does this sound: A pre-wedding date night where you cook dinner, pour some wine, and sift through your record collection to piece together the ultimate wedding day set list? Your guests will love it, but more importantly, you’ll be happily screaming along to all your fave bangers. Often couples ask their guests for song suggestions on their RSVP and use that in their playlists, too.
Music isn’t just background noise—it’s the atmosphere, the energy, and the thing that’ll bring all your best memories flooding back whenever you hear those songs again. Cue you both crying in the car five years later when your first dance song comes on the radio. So, make sure you invest some time into this part of the planning process.
Pro tip: When looking for live bands or DJs, always watch videos and listen to recordings first to make sure they match your vibe. Ask if they’re willing to learn a few key songstoo, and how much each new song will cost to learn. Your dream band might already know most of your faves, but you’ll want them to nail that one track that makes your heart skip a beat and everyone to hot the dance floor!
4. Band-Inspired Cocktails
Let’s face it, nothing gets a party started quite like a signature cocktail—so why not tie the bar menu into your music theme? Picture this: a drinks menu where all the cocktails are named after your favourite songs or bands. Yes, please!
A few examples to get your creative ideas flowing:
A Misery Business Mojito for all you Paramore fans. 🫶
A Sweet Child o’ Mine Sangria to toast to Guns N’ Roses lovers.
A Bohemian Raspberry for Queen stans who like their cocktails fruity and fabulous and absolute trashbag puns. 🍹
Pair these with a stylish drinks sign (I can totally help with that), and you’ve got a bar that’s both Insta-worthy and utterly you. If booze isn’t your thing, go for mocktails with equally fun names. Either way, your guests will love the personal touch.
5. Décor Worthy of a Headliner
If you’re going all-in on the music theme, don’t stop at favours and playlists. Let’s talk décor! Think vinyl records as table chargers, centrepieces or table names. Hang band posters as a backdrop for your photo booth, or use them to line the walls of your venue. You can even design posters with your names and wedding date as if you’re the headlining act!
Neon signs with lyrics or song titles? Obsessed. A disco ball over the dance floor? Absolutely essential. You could even throw in a few cheeky nods to your favourite artists—like tiny guitar picks as place card holders or sheet music folded into flowers for your bouquet. The possibilities are endless, and the vibe will be unforgettable.
6. Your First Dance Song
Okay, this one might seem obvious, but it’s worth a mention because it’s such a big deal. Choosing your first dance song is like picking the soundtrack to one of the most magical moments of your life. No pressure, right?
Think about a song that tells your story, reminds you of your journey together, or just makes you want to sway in each other’s arms. And if you’re stuck, try this: Write down a list of songs that have meant something to you both—songs from concerts, road trips, lazy Sundays, or even inside jokes. One of those tracks might just end up being the one. Don’t feel you need to awkwardly slow dance of that’s not your thing. You can headbang your way through this track, it can be fast, and you can invite all your mates to join you. You do you, babes!
At the end of the day (or night, if you’re rocking out on the dance floor), your wedding should feel like a celebration of who you are as a couple. If music has been the soundtrack to your love story, there’s no better way to say “I do” than with a wedding that’s as legendary as your favourite band’s greatest hits. Ready to get started? Let’s make some magic together — your wedding is about to go platinum! 🎶💍
Photo by Dawn E Roscoe
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